In this week's class we watched the introduction to the movie "Soul Plane" and observed the racial stereotypes contained within. Maggy described it as a movie that is, "about as offensive as it gets..." It takes racial stereotypes over the top, which is one of the things that make it funny.
It starts out with an out of work African American man who has quite the negative experience on a major US airline. He ends up suing the airline for damages as his dog was killed in flight. The defense attorney points out that he is an out of work man trying to make an easy score. He ends up winning the lawsuit and starts his own airline.
The fun truly begins after that. His airline is based out of terminal "Malcom X" and 99.8% of passengers are African American. The terminal features many fine vehicles (mostly Cadillac), a basketball court, fried chicken, jewlery stores with plenty of bling available, etc.
The aircraft itself was pimped out as well. The plane was painted to be purple and it even had spinners on its wheels! First class was truly that: first class. Low class, as he called it, looked more like a subway car than an aircraft, and it even had standing room. Most of the flight attendants were African American, with the exception being the "sexed out" Hispanic.
The few passengers who weren't African Americans felt truly out of place. The one Arab man who boarded the plane was continually harassed by airline security and called "Ossama" multiple times. The white family we see was also typified with a last name of "Honky", had a gold-digging wife, a sex crazed teenage daughter, and a nerdy son.
We didn't get to finish the movie, but what we saw was worth watching nonetheless. After the movie we began a group project and will make PowerPoint presentations next week. I don't really have a deep analysis for this week's blog... class this time was more laid back.
Friday, October 23, 2009
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Sexual Oppression in America
Last week's class was one that hit close to home for me personally. After the midterm that I forgot about, we had a guest speaker from the GSA on campus that told his story of how he came out. He also spoke on how gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender groups are truly one of the last groups in America to be denied fundamental rights, and how we are still treated as second class by our government and society.
The class and lecture was conducted in a very informal, relaxed way. We simply asked questions, and they were answered. I found a lot of parallels of my own life's story to our speaker's.
I had always known I was gay, ever since middle school. Yet, like our speaker, I continued to date girls because I was raised in a very religious, conservative home. I knew that my thoughts, feelings, and desired were 'wrong' and inconsistent with my mother's beliefs, yet I couldn't deny that I was attracted to other males. I remained closeted until college, at which time I felt much more comfortable with myself and came out to a select group of my friends. It wasn't long after this event that my mother overheard a conversation that I never intended for her to hear.
I had been dating another guy that I went to college with. I didn't really go out to the club because I was so scared of being 'discovered'. Because of this I met other guys online, for the most part. I was having problems with my boyfriend at the time so I was talking to a close friend of mine about it. I didn't realize my mom was home... I thought she had gone to her Wednesday evening Bible study, like she always did. I sought counsel from my friend Jen, and my mother overheard the entire conversation. She must have suspected for quite some time that I wasn't straight, but now... her suspicions were confirmed and there was nothing I could do or say to the contrary. The brawl ensued. My mother proceeded to tell me how she had failed me, not the other way around. She cried, for hours... I also received the religious speech about how I am going to burn in Hell... etc.
Our relationship became strained and was never the same again. It wasn't long after this that I moved out of my mom's house. I wasn't ready to face the world alone, financially if for no other reason, but... I had no choice. I was on my own. We didn't talk much for about two years. Once she became mentally ill though, I started to get closer to her again. It was too late, however. She is currently unable to even recognize me as her son. It's funny how now, it doesn't matter if I'm gay or straight... all that matters is that I try to be there for her. My sexual orientation means little now, as she just enjoys having someone to talk to.
Our speaker also discussed how society views homosexuality, particularly for the male, as unacceptable. It would be very hard for two men to walk down the street holding hands and displaying affection towards each other. Homosexual cannot marry in the vast majority of states and are denied many other basic rights, including health benefits. While I do not have anyone special in my life at the present time, this still affects me. I pay my taxes just like every other American and deserve the same rights as all other people. Politicians tend to use fear as a tool to ensure reelection. Regardless of the political landscape, the challenges facing homosexuals are no different than the challenges that faced civil rights era African Americans.
It is hard to be gay in America, period. Many European cultures are far more accepting and tolerant. We should take a cue from our friends there and be more progressive. It's not easy to find a partner that wants more than just a quick fling in the gay sub-culture, nor is it easy for a same-sex couple to enjoy the same basic things that their heterosexual counterparts do.
I am different than most gay men. Anyone who knows me knows this to be true. I don't get drunk every weekend, I don't do drugs, I don't live to party at the gay bar every night it is open, and I am not ‘active’ in the gay community. I also don't have a really sheek fashion sense and don't have to wear Hollister or American Eagle clothing everywhere I go. I realize not all of these stereotypes apply to every gay man... I am nevertheless, a hard-working professional who just wants to find happiness, like every other human being. The Preamble to the US Declaration of Independence reads:
"We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed, by their Creator, with certain unalienable rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness."
While the founding fathers used the word 'men', I believe that today's culture replaces the word men with 'people'. Just because someone has a different sexual orientation, or is of a sub-culture, doesn't mean that they can be denied their basic rights. While yes, I may be different, I am still an American citizen. I provide a much needed service to those in need and give freely of myself. I just wish to find a special man to share my life with and build my dreams. I ask the extreme, right-wing conservatives: What is so wrong with this desire?
The class and lecture was conducted in a very informal, relaxed way. We simply asked questions, and they were answered. I found a lot of parallels of my own life's story to our speaker's.
I had always known I was gay, ever since middle school. Yet, like our speaker, I continued to date girls because I was raised in a very religious, conservative home. I knew that my thoughts, feelings, and desired were 'wrong' and inconsistent with my mother's beliefs, yet I couldn't deny that I was attracted to other males. I remained closeted until college, at which time I felt much more comfortable with myself and came out to a select group of my friends. It wasn't long after this event that my mother overheard a conversation that I never intended for her to hear.
I had been dating another guy that I went to college with. I didn't really go out to the club because I was so scared of being 'discovered'. Because of this I met other guys online, for the most part. I was having problems with my boyfriend at the time so I was talking to a close friend of mine about it. I didn't realize my mom was home... I thought she had gone to her Wednesday evening Bible study, like she always did. I sought counsel from my friend Jen, and my mother overheard the entire conversation. She must have suspected for quite some time that I wasn't straight, but now... her suspicions were confirmed and there was nothing I could do or say to the contrary. The brawl ensued. My mother proceeded to tell me how she had failed me, not the other way around. She cried, for hours... I also received the religious speech about how I am going to burn in Hell... etc.
Our relationship became strained and was never the same again. It wasn't long after this that I moved out of my mom's house. I wasn't ready to face the world alone, financially if for no other reason, but... I had no choice. I was on my own. We didn't talk much for about two years. Once she became mentally ill though, I started to get closer to her again. It was too late, however. She is currently unable to even recognize me as her son. It's funny how now, it doesn't matter if I'm gay or straight... all that matters is that I try to be there for her. My sexual orientation means little now, as she just enjoys having someone to talk to.
Our speaker also discussed how society views homosexuality, particularly for the male, as unacceptable. It would be very hard for two men to walk down the street holding hands and displaying affection towards each other. Homosexual cannot marry in the vast majority of states and are denied many other basic rights, including health benefits. While I do not have anyone special in my life at the present time, this still affects me. I pay my taxes just like every other American and deserve the same rights as all other people. Politicians tend to use fear as a tool to ensure reelection. Regardless of the political landscape, the challenges facing homosexuals are no different than the challenges that faced civil rights era African Americans.
It is hard to be gay in America, period. Many European cultures are far more accepting and tolerant. We should take a cue from our friends there and be more progressive. It's not easy to find a partner that wants more than just a quick fling in the gay sub-culture, nor is it easy for a same-sex couple to enjoy the same basic things that their heterosexual counterparts do.
I am different than most gay men. Anyone who knows me knows this to be true. I don't get drunk every weekend, I don't do drugs, I don't live to party at the gay bar every night it is open, and I am not ‘active’ in the gay community. I also don't have a really sheek fashion sense and don't have to wear Hollister or American Eagle clothing everywhere I go. I realize not all of these stereotypes apply to every gay man... I am nevertheless, a hard-working professional who just wants to find happiness, like every other human being. The Preamble to the US Declaration of Independence reads:
"We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed, by their Creator, with certain unalienable rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness."
While the founding fathers used the word 'men', I believe that today's culture replaces the word men with 'people'. Just because someone has a different sexual orientation, or is of a sub-culture, doesn't mean that they can be denied their basic rights. While yes, I may be different, I am still an American citizen. I provide a much needed service to those in need and give freely of myself. I just wish to find a special man to share my life with and build my dreams. I ask the extreme, right-wing conservatives: What is so wrong with this desire?
Monday, October 5, 2009
Gender's role in entertainment and everyday life...
Last week in class we discussed the role and expectations of gender, particularly in Hollywood. What is masculine and feminine, first of all? What way should a man or woman act? What way should a man or woman not act? The mass media greatly influences our expectations and schemas that we use to answer these questions.
We started by looking at advertisements and articles from different magazines. Many depict muscular, athletic men and tend to pair them up with supermodels that could literally be supported with one hand, or other appendage. These particular body types were described as ideal. Larger females and skinny males didn't fetch much attention in the magazines. The athletic females also had very little coverage, despite the fact that they would likely have been better matches for the athletic males.
We watched clips from different movies and discussed how certain actors tend to always be cast for particular roles. You would never expect to see Bruce Willis in a movie such as Mrs. Doubtfire. In turn you'd never expect to see Robin Williams in something like Live Free or Die Hard. Speaking of the latter, we discussed how Bruce Willis' screen daughter had just as much of a kick-ass attitude as he does.
Films and TV depict what are 'normal' masculine and feminine behaviors. When these norms are violated, we often laugh or make of fun of those who are different. We used the male nurse example from Meet the Fockers. It built up the stereotype that males shouldn't be in a nursing position because we aren't supposed to be nurturers. The examples could go on and on.
Lastly we described the struggle for power between competitors and how these struggles can have good and bad consequences. The scene in Dum Line showed the fight between the underdog and the top dog. It's almost as if a group exists there are those who will embody power, and others who will crave it. The latter group will tend to do whatever it takes to obtain its objectives.
Gender is such a hot button issue in today's society. With the movement of the gay, bisexual, lesbian, and transgender communities, gender is not so cute and dry anymore. Gender roles and expectations are not so black and white anymore. I say again, the world is grey.
We started by looking at advertisements and articles from different magazines. Many depict muscular, athletic men and tend to pair them up with supermodels that could literally be supported with one hand, or other appendage. These particular body types were described as ideal. Larger females and skinny males didn't fetch much attention in the magazines. The athletic females also had very little coverage, despite the fact that they would likely have been better matches for the athletic males.
We watched clips from different movies and discussed how certain actors tend to always be cast for particular roles. You would never expect to see Bruce Willis in a movie such as Mrs. Doubtfire. In turn you'd never expect to see Robin Williams in something like Live Free or Die Hard. Speaking of the latter, we discussed how Bruce Willis' screen daughter had just as much of a kick-ass attitude as he does.
Films and TV depict what are 'normal' masculine and feminine behaviors. When these norms are violated, we often laugh or make of fun of those who are different. We used the male nurse example from Meet the Fockers. It built up the stereotype that males shouldn't be in a nursing position because we aren't supposed to be nurturers. The examples could go on and on.
Lastly we described the struggle for power between competitors and how these struggles can have good and bad consequences. The scene in Dum Line showed the fight between the underdog and the top dog. It's almost as if a group exists there are those who will embody power, and others who will crave it. The latter group will tend to do whatever it takes to obtain its objectives.
Gender is such a hot button issue in today's society. With the movement of the gay, bisexual, lesbian, and transgender communities, gender is not so cute and dry anymore. Gender roles and expectations are not so black and white anymore. I say again, the world is grey.
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